As I lay here, a memory, a thought, enters my mind while in a relaxed state. I once again arrive back to my time at Hephzibah High School. The year is 2018 and a young man by the name of Billy and I are having a conversation about life. “Mr. Kennedy, the world will never remember me when I’m gone” is the question of concern plaguing this young boy’s mind. I thought for a second and replied, “What is the meaning of the world? The world is a big place, but your world is much smaller. Everyone that means something to you is in your world. Your world will remember just how great you are, and that’s all that should matter to you.” The young boy thought for a second and smiled while saying “you’re right.” No matter how small or big your world is, one’s meaning, purpose, and presence brings life, light, and energy to it.
As we reflect back on our lives, we think of the legacy we may leave behind. How will the world view me when I’m gone? Will we be remembered by those we loved and shared life with in a positive light? Will we be remembered by those who don’t know me? We often assume that a meaningful legacy must reach far and wide. But does it? Or is it enough to live a fulfilled life, touching the people around us?
As I continue to ponder this very topic, I think about the people in my world that have had such an impact on my life. I think about my parents, the sacrifices and hard work they have committed to, to provide the best life possible to me. I remember a friend’s parents, who went from rags to riches, teaching me that anything is possible with persistence… though I often wonder—how much is luck, and how much is effort? I think of Roger Fabrizio, a family friend. He died when I was 13, but he taught me to break free from the cocoon of my shyness—to step into the world unafraid, to let my presence be seen and felt. I think of Victor Rone, my best friend’s step-dad who taught me about money, honesty, and hard work. I think of my high school baseball coach, Tom Ryder. He taught me discipline—and that what matters most is what you do when no one is watching. Such a small group of people, but they are the people that live in the world that is my mind.
In the age of social media, we all crave to be remembered. The clicks, the likes, the comments spark a rush of dopamine, a small reminder that someone is noticing us. As I reflect, I can't help but think about how I will be remembered. I am no perfect person, but I hope I have touched the lives of others just as others before me have brought light to my life. No matter the size of your circle, your world is yours to shape. Appreciate it, for each of us is a star—a light shining in someone else’s sky.
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